Although it seems logical, the combination of great husband and great mother-in-law is not a given. I've been fortunate to have acquired both.
When we visit, she runs us into the ground. We can barely keep up. She introduced us to Millenium Park where we found the International Knitter's Day last year. She found Moto, the restaurant where you eat the menu as your first course. She took us to the Milwaukee Art Museum last summer.
An Arlo Guthrie concert, a play called Novathemba (featuring the US debut of Ladysmith Black Mambazo), Second City comedy performances, all conjured from her active and inquiring mind over the years. She runs a small empire (a jewelry gallery where she designs and oversees the creation of unique pieces). I'm sure she will bristle at my use of the word 'small'.
Her glass is always half-full. I've learned a great deal about surviving life's adversities from her, and from her son. I'm not sure she really knows how much I love her, and how important she is to me, for many many reasons.
We just got back from visiting the family last week. She kept the activities more conservative so that Mr. E could keep up with us on his crutch. The Chicago Architectural Foundation's river tour she arranged gave us what would have been my "M" post - Marina Towers. Today, as I missed her smile, her energy, and her spirit, I realized that the Towers were just a bit part in life's play that is my relationship with Mr. E's mom.